Our Book

Almost 30 years of research and experience has demonstrated that the education of children with disabilities can be made more effective by strengthening the role and responsibility of parents
— U.S. Department of Education


Carson Graves, Robert K. Crabtree and Judith Canty Graves

Carson Graves, Robert K. Crabtree and Judith Canty Graves

“The book you hold in your hand offers a lucid and pragmatic guide… through the maze of public and private procedures that parents must navigate to secure the services that their children with disabilities need… Read this book and keep it handy for frequent reference! And may you, with its help, fight your way to a fantastic program for your child!” — from the foreword by Robert K. Crabtree, Esq., Kotin, Crabtree & Strong, LLP, Boston


Our book is both a primer to the complex world of special education and a cautionary tale of our journey through relief, cooperation, confusion, betrayal, and finally awakening.  During our 15 years in special education we learned the reality of funding problems, confusing bureaucratic procedures, and a school culture that too often places job security over the needs of the student. We also witnessed parental innocence, ignorance, and heartache. Through our experience, we can offer clear advice and share valuable insights to other parents who need help understanding special education and getting the right services for their child.